Lips are moisturized
Make sure lips are properly moisturized. Avoid overly sticky lip-gloss or lipstick of any kind. You don’t want to leave any marks or too slippery a surface.
Lean in and tilt your head slightly in either direction. His head should be tilted in the opposite direction.
Close your eyes
Part your lips and close your eyes as you lean in until your lips meet his.
Intensity of tongue and kiss
Kiss his mouth as you open your mouth wide. Slip your tongue in his mouth and play around with your tongue and his. Have fun with it; play around with the intensity of the tongue action and the intensity of the kiss.
Responds for you
Pay attention to his body language figure out what he responds to. Kissing should be a compromise as you both get acquainted with each other’s kissing styles.
Brush your teeth and tongue
It also can’t hurt at all to floss thoroughly. There’s nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath, or someone who still has leftovers stuck between their teeth.
Prepare for the event
You pretty much have control over when the kiss is going to happen so you can prepare for it. Be sure to be ready with lips that are not chapped and breathe mints, drops or gum just in case it happens after garlic and onion infested dinner. Your boyfriend will appreciate your hygiene and fresh breath.
Pick the perfect spot
Take your boyfriend to a special place, or have him take you someplace special for your first kiss together. He may not know why you want to go but if he takes you there then that will be more assurance that it is the right time to give him a smooch. A nice place with an unforgettable view or somewhere private but romantic is a perfect spot.
Wait for the right moment
Wait for the right time to plant one on your boyfriend. It may be after he says something sweet or when he divulges something personal to you. Either way, you will know when the time comes to kiss him because of the feeling you get. Don’t allow a perfect moment or situation to pass without taking advantage of it as you may regret it later.
Look him in his eyes
When the moment comes and it is time to kiss your boyfriend for the first time, make sure to gaze into his eyes. Doing this should signal to him that something is about to happen. Without breaking eye contact, begin to draw closer to him. Make sure that you gauge where his lips are if you intend to close your eyes when you are kissing him.
Plant one on him
Everyone has a different kissing style but good kissers all know that perfecting the technique is the key to a good kiss. After you have learned in for the kiss, stop short of your boyfriend’s lips and make him lean in the rest of the way. This will ensure that he wants to kiss you as well. Reverse this process if he is the first one to make a move. Open your mouth slightly and provide gentle suction when your lips meet. You do not have to French kiss your boyfriend for the first time if you are unsure or uncomfortable about the experience.
As you start kissing, lick his lips a tiny bit. It’s like a movie trailer of what’s to come!
Sweet and seductive
Tease him by putting the tip of your tongue in his mouth for just a second and then moving your head back slightly to tease him. So sweet and seductive
Run the tip of your tongue around your guy’s teeth, play with his tongue and even suck on his tongue gently for few seconds, which will feel surprisingly amazing.
Combine tongue kisses with sweet kisses, slow and soft kisses, neck kisses, cheek kisses, and all kinds of kisses.
You put your tongue in his mouth, and just kiss him. It will come naturally…. enjoy it while it is your first time. But don’t make a mess of it until at least your 7th time WITH THE SAME GUY!!!!
Not to aware mind
Here are some facts you may not be aware of. It’s wise to abstain from the French kissing. Do know not to French kiss someone when you have a cold sore as they are viral and spread very easily. French kissing should really be reserved for a boyfriend you have been dating for a while. Think before you French Kiss because you won’t/ don’t know where their mouth has been!
French kissing is also very fun. It’s pleasant, fun and very satisfying. BUT DON’T DO IT UNTIL YOU ARE SURE ABOUT IT!! AND AT A RIGHT AGE!
Passionate and intimacy
French kissing is a beautiful and is one of the most passionate points of intimacy. I remember when I was younger after you would go out on a date the first questions the girls would ask is & how was the kiss& Kissing says a lot about the kisser. It can make all the difference in that all important first impression.
The French kiss is considered as the oral dance. As the kisser you can lead or follow the others tongue. Play with her, have fun, caress and hold her close. Soft touching around her face and putting your hands through her hair all add to the arousal of French kissing.
Before you kiss someone
Especially if this is the first kiss, make sure that your breath isn’t bad and that your mouth is clean. You don’t have to brush your teeth just before kissing but don’t eat anything spicy either.
Face to face
Face your boyfriend as you would with any kiss. Naturally, you need to be close together. Make sure that you have their full attention.
Lean in slowly
Don’t rush things. Otherwise you might bump noses or even teeth. Tilt your head to one side as you lean in. You don’t have to tilt it by much, just enough to avoid a nose-to-nose accident.
Touch your boyfriend
Part your lips just before your lips touch your boyfriend. Don’t open your mouth too much. A little will do.
Press your lips together
Start softly and enjoy the kiss. You don’t need to stick your tongue right in. Take a second to just press lips.
Slowly insert your tongue into your partner’s mouth. The best French kissing tip I can give is to not go deep. You don’t want to force your presence, just play with their tongue gently. Make sure to move your tongue slowly.
Hold your body
Make sure to hold your boyfriend in your arms, either around the back or gently grasp their head. This will increase the sensation.
Keep your lips moistened
Dry lips do not make for good kisses.
Close your eyes
Looking someone dead in the eye while they kiss you can sometimes kill the mood.
Explore with your tongue
Just like anything in life, you don’t want it to be boring. Remember, a hard tongue is a huge turnoff.
Don’t forget to breathe
Probably the most important part, you don’t want to pass out during your smooch. Unless of course you literally want your breath taken away by your boyfriend
Mind for fun and love
Now when you are in the company of your boyfriend and are having a private moment together as you are alone in a room or on the sofa then make your boyfriend comfortable and relaxed and sit alongside each other.
When kissing use only your lips and feel comfortable. As you enjoy this keep your eyes closed so you experience the sensation of both your lips touching and the feelings you have for your boyfriend that will create that sparkle and more intimacy.
Both of you feel better
Most importantly make sure you are both relaxed and are feeling playful and sensual. As a result your body will be relaxed and your lips will be relaxed too. Look into each other’s eyes and touch your boyfriend on his hands and lean closer towards your boyfriend and flirt with him so you are both intimate with each other.
Trying to French kiss right is a sure fire way to kiss the enjoyment for both of you. Instead, focus on just enjoying the sensations, and have fun with being with him.
At the right time for you to kiss
You may feel excited. Just don’t over think, or over stress. It is important to keep good eye contact. A great way to approach and move on to a great, intense kiss would be throw a gentle smile, or simply brush your date’s hair before approaching.
Lean in forward slowly
Start off with a few gentle kisses, and build up both of your comfort levels. It’s best to keep your eyes closed. Maybe open them once or twice to see how the other person is reacting. Depending on how deep into the kissing you two are, it may be the perfect time to move in for more.
When you approach the lips for the French kiss
Fully kiss the lips and gently use your tongue on parts of the lips of the other person. Continue the gentle kisses with the tip of your tongue. Don’t be afraid to slowly move it around without going in too deep.
You are now French kissing
Your lips are well in contact. Your tongues have touched a few times. Gently licking each other’s tongue, don’t try to be too adventurous quite yet. You may scare him away. It’s also important to set a comfortable pace. Quick tongue movements can become annoying, and no tongue movement can put the other person to sleep.
Embracing your boyfriend
It’s easiest to French kiss standing up if you haven’t tried it before. Begin by embracing your boyfriend and cuddling. Let yourselves get snugly. Put your hands on his hips or around his neck or up into his hair.
No tension in your lips
Keep your lips on your boyfriend’s lips but make sure not to have any tension in your lips or tongue or cheeks. Softly is what it’s all about. Let him explore your mouth with his tongue, and then you do this to his mouth.
As passions get heated up the kissing may become more intense and your tongues may become more rigid. This is okay. Moving the tongue around and in and out of the partner’s mouth is desired.
Fruits you can eat
As a variation you can hold a maraschino cherry in your teeth to entice your lover. The cherry can be passed back and forth and eventually spit out or eaten by one or both of you.
Different ways French kisses
Now that you have the basics down you should begin exploring with each other tongues. Try different ways of rubbing your tongues together. There are many different ways you can French kiss. Everyone that uses the French kiss might kiss differently than others that use it. It is based off of you and your boyfriend. Play around and you will find that one special way to French kiss with your tongues. Remember, it’s nothing to stress over. It may feel a bit weird at first but with time and practice you will get it down in no time.
Begin the kiss
While you’re kissing your boyfriend, you’re going to want to let your tongue come out of your mouth just barely, and brush the tip of your tongue across your boyfriend lips. Don’t go balls to the wall though and lick your boyfriend lips like they’re a giant lolls pop. Keep it subtle.
Make sure your boyfriend’s on the same page
If they felt your tongue, and they are willing to French kiss, they will let the tip of their tongue slip through their lips, to brush your lips, when you two kiss again. If they don’t lick your lips, you’re S.O.L., but if they do lick your lips, when you go in for the next kiss, give your boyfriend a little bit more of your tongue. Let your tongue touch your boyfriend, because they will most likely give you more of their tongue too.
Getting deep and passionate
Now all you have to do every time you two re lock lips is give your boyfriend more and more tongue each time. What you eventually want to do however is get your tongue into your boyfriend mouth. Don’t get too crazy though and choke your boyfriend with your tongue.
Kiss him all the time
You can always keep the love alive by kissing each other gently whenever you feel it.
Look your boyfriend straight in the eyes
Eye contact is the best way to show someone you really care about them. By looking them in the eyes before you move in for the kiss, you will be able to see and feel if they are having the same feelings for you as you are having towards them.
Move in for the kiss
As you start to move in for the kiss you will want to close your eyes when you get close to your boyfriend. Moving in for the kiss can be the hardest part of how to french kiss. It takes a sense of confidence in your relationship and in yourself.
Press your lips against your boyfriend
This is just a regular kiss at this point. Use your hands to embrace your partner and make this a romantic build up to the French kiss that is to come.
Move your tongue slowly
Slowly move your tongue to make contact with your boyfriend tongue. This is done in a slow casual way not in a darting in and out fashion. Think of what it is like to slowly lick your lips. Move your tongue slow and in circular motions as you intertwine it with your boyfriend tongue.
Lips are one of the most important aspects of kissing. Your lips should be soft, smooth, and free of peeling, sores, lipstick, lip liner, or anything else. A lightly flavored chap stick or lip balm is all you should wear. Keep your lips hydrated and conditioned at all times. You never know when that kiss will come.
A perfect kiss or a perfect kisser can be ruined completely by poor timing. Choose wisely. Also, be prepared with a fresh mint or piece of mint gum in your mouth.
To intensify and add passion to kissing
You may kiss other parts of the face, neck, and ears. It also helps to lightly touch the face, jaw, and neck of your partner with your hands and fingers while kissing.
Going the full way
If you now feel the time is right, lean in slowly, but allow them to come forward a little bit as well. If they want to kiss you back, they will come in. If they do not come in, and they do not back up, I would suggest going the full way because they may be just as awkward as you and not know what to do!
Take a bit of practice
You want to keep your lips separated just a little bit as you pucker. For those thin lips, try to pucker as much as you can without making your lips tense. This may take a bit of practice.
Keep your eyes closed and keep it relatively short. Back up away just a few centimeters and look into the boyfriend eyes. Once you both look at each other, chances are you will both want more.
Try gently kissing the boyfriend upper or lower lip. Do not pull the lip as that is usually for a much more passionate kiss/make-out session.
Once you kiss the upper or lower lip and back away, go back to the other lip. Alternate lips as they will follow your lead by kissing the upper. And there you go – a successful kiss!
Wear Deodorant Every Day
There’s nothing worse than stank breath except for a kissing partner who doesn’t put their arms around you when you kiss. Physically touching each other with your hands is a splendid way to make the kiss better without doing anything extra. And since you never know when a kiss is coming, you should ways be ready to be close to someone.
Get the Head Tilt Thing Down
One of the most important parts of the kiss is getting your head to tilt perfectly and in sync with your partner without bumping noses or teeth. After a few times, you’ll just get used to each other’s tilts. But in the beginning, this is a technique that you have to take it slow. Pretend like your moving at 10 frames per second instead of 16 frames per second when moving in on the head tilt and you’ll get it right every time.
You should close your eyes on the way in (like during the head tilt). You get more of a sensation by closing your eyes. If you feel the urge to open your eyes during the kiss, do it very quickly. Don’t get caught with your eyes open. You’ll feel like a schmuck.
Closes, then Open
But I thought this was French kissing? Yes, it is. But every French kiss you ever pull off will start with several soft, sensual closed mouths, lip-to-lip kisses. It sets the mood and you get a feel of your partner’s passion. Your closed mouth kisses will definitely indicate a need (or not) to move on to French kissing.
Licking the Lips
This is the ultra-sexy technique. Use this trick and you’ve got something mighty powerful up your sleeve, my friend. The lips are full of tiny nerve endings, and when you run your tongue across them, it could send shivers and goose bumps all down their spine. And it should cause your partner’s lips to open, thus welcoming your tongue into theirs.
Take the journey inside
Explore the inside of your partner’s mouth with your tongue. Move Slowly – Very slowly. Move your tongue in big circles around your partner’s tongue and along their lips. Keep it soft.
Use Your Hands to Enhance the Kiss
While embraced in a French kiss, slightly rub your hands across your partner’s next, waist, back, or shoulders.
Move in at an Angle
When you approach your sweetheart to kiss, angle your head to one side. If you both move together straight on then your noses will bump into each other. While kissing it is OK to change sides for a little variety.
Where you explore will add variety, but there are other ways as well. First, don’t forget to return to normal kissing. The French kiss is great, but so is regular kissing. If you go back and forth between the two, you and your partner will avoid getting bored. Second, adjust the speed and strength of your tongue. Sometimes you’ll want to vigorously explore your partner’s mouth while other times you’ll want to be more passive and let your partner take the lead.